How We Work
Still Chosen is built around a simple belief: children heal best in the context of safe, loving relationships.
Still Chosen is built around a family-style home model, where children experience stability, belonging, and consistent care through everyday life together. While many organizations serve children through larger residential programs, our focus is on creating a small, relational home environment where healing can happen through consistent relationships.
Life in our home is intentionally designed to look and feel like a family environment: shared meals, laughter, chores, learning new skills, and time to simply be kids.
Children who come to us have often lived in survival mode for years. Many have experienced trauma, exploitation, hunger, and instability. Our goal is to replace chaos with safety, rhythm, and relationships.
Trauma-Informed at Every Level
Every part of our program is guided by trauma-informed care and the principles of Trust-Based Relational Intervention® (TBRI®). Both founders have received TBRI training and apply these principles in daily life with the children. This means we focus on:
Connection before correction
Predictable routines that build safety
Empowering children with choices
Teaching skills rather than punishing behavior
Meeting physical and emotional needs first
Many children entering our home have learned to survive through aggression, withdrawal, or hyper-independence. Rather than seeing these behaviors as “problems,” we understand them as adaptations to trauma.
Our role is to patiently teach new patterns of trust, safety, and belonging.
The First 30 Days: Stabilization
When a child first arrives, the priority is stabilization, not productivity. During the first month we focus on:
Nutritious meals and consistent sleep
Medical and emotional stabilization
Building trust and relationships
Establishing simple daily rhythms
Helping children feel safe in the home
Structure is introduced slowly and gently, recognizing that children coming from the streets or unstable environments may have lived without routines for years.
Building Healthy Rhythms
After stabilization, we gradually introduce a balanced rhythm of life that supports emotional healing, learning, and normal childhood development. Our weekly rhythm includes a blend of movement, creativity, learning, life skills, rest, and family connection.
Movement & Physical Activity
Physical movement helps regulate the nervous system and release stress. Activities may include:
Soccer
Walking together
Dance
Outdoor games
Learning & Education
Many children we serve have missed significant schooling. When at all possible, we build learning back slowly through engaging and practical activities in addition to either school enrollment or trade training depending on the individual need. Examples include:
English learning games
Budgeting games
Basic academic support
Creative learning projects
Creativity & Expression
Artistic activities allow children to process emotions and discover talents. Examples include:
Art projects
Crafting
Music
Creative expression
Family Life
Healing happens in relationship. Our home is built around shared experiences. Regular rhythms include:
Family meals
Movie nights
Outings and adventures
Celebrations
Church attendance and activities
Rest & Reflection
Children who have lived in survival mode often need time to simply be children again. We intentionally include:
Quiet time and quiet spaces
Rest
Play